LOVE!!!

Hi!

As we did the unit “relationships” I thought I should write something about it. I’m writing about “LOVE” according to the way I feel it. Sometimes you may not have the same attitude to love, like mine.

The word “LOVE” is such a strange word. Because nobody has ever succeeded in giving this word a real definition. When you love someone that person becomes everything for you. I think this is somewhat bad because when that person leaves you, you won’t have anything left. Every single human in this world like to love and to be loved. It’s a natural thing. I think every single love in this world is conditional except for mother’s love and Jesus Christ’s love. But there are some mothers in this world who love their children conditionally.

Helen Keller, once told something like this,

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.”

Love is one of the most beautiful things in this world and it should be felt with the heart. One of the main mistakes people do in love is, loving someone who doesn’t love them back. I think you should love someone who loves you back. Other wise you are going to suffer.

Finding a lover is not easy. I found this good piece of advice from net and thought I should share it with my friends.

“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, that’s her... “

Some parts in this advice are very lame actually. Like “.who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... “. (I really don't think a boy will ever do this except Edward Cullen.) But all other things seems okay to me. So here I add some things that people have told about love.

• When you are in love you can’t fall asleep because the reality is better than your dreams.
• Women wish to be loved not because they are pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because they are themselves.
• Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime.
• You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
• To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
• I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
• Some of the greater things in life are unseen that’s why you close your eyes when you kiss, cry, or dream...

• The hottest love has the coldest end.

• The ones that you love the most are usually the ones that hurt you the most.

• If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

• I get the best feeling in the world when you say hi or even smile at me because I know, even if it’s just for a second, that I've crossed your mind.
• Falling in love is awfully simple, but falling out of love is simply awful.
• LOVE: We think about it, Sing about it and Dream about it and loose sleep worrying about it. When we don't know we have it, we search for it. When we discover it, we don't know what to do with it. When we have it, we fear loosing it. It is the constant source of pleasure and pain. But we don't know which it will be from one moment to the next. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define and IMPOSSIBLE to live without.
• Love - a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker.

It’s not easy to understand love. Until you find your special one you’ll think it’s lame. Sure it makes you weaker sometimes. But still it’s love. You should love someone to understand love.

SOMETHING I FOUND

Girl: Do you think I'm pretty?
Boy: No
Girl: Do I ever cross you mind?
Boy:
Girl: Do you like me?
Boy: No
Girl: Do you want me?
Boy: No
Girl: Would you cry if I left?
Boy: No
Girl: Would you do anything for me?
Boy: No way.
Girl: What would you choose, your life or mine?
Boy: My life
The girl runs off crying in pain and the boy runs after her, grabs her, and tells her:

The reason you're not pretty is cause you're beautiful
The reason you never cross my mind is cause you're always on my mind
The reason I don't like you is cause I love you
The reason I don't want you is cause I need you
The reason I won't cry if you left is cause I'd die
The reason I won't do anything for you is cause I'd do everything for you
The reason I'd chose my life is cause you are my life.

When she walks away from you mad:[ Follow her ]

When she stares at your lips:[ Kiss her ]

When she pushes you or hits you:[Grab her and don't let go ]

okay. this is so stupid. don't ever do things like this. i just found it from the net. since everyone was talking about love madly i thought i should do something too.

When Gary asked us to write about anything we like I really haven’t had any good ideas. Then we celebrated women’s day on March 8^th and I thought to write about it. So this is my piece of writing on:-

THE INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY!!!

As you know this particular event is celebrated on the 8^th of March. The very 1^st celebration of women’s day took place in 1911. This day has a very long and violent history. To understand how this day came about it’s necessary to pay our attention back to early 20^th century.

During 1908 the women were not given some advantages that men had. Some of the women were not happy about this and these feelings of inequality and oppression made many women to raise there voices against this. Most of the women were encouraged by these feelings of inequality and they felt the necessity to campaign about it. So in year 1908, 15000 women marched over the streets of New York City to demand shorter working hours, better pay and the right to vote. (They weren’t even given the right to vote!!)

In 1910, the 2^nd international conference of Working Women held in Copenhagen. Clara Zetnik the leader of the German “Women’s Office” for the Social Democratic party 1^st had the idea of having a women’s day. Tabling this idea she told that it is important for every single woman to obtain their needs and rights. There were about 100 women who represented 17 countries at this conference.

After the decision was made the 1^st International Women’s Day held on 19^th March in 1911. This was celebrated in Austria, Denmark, Germany and Switzerland. Not only women but men also attended these IWD rallies and they campaigned for the women’s right to be trained, vote and work. They also campaigned against the discrimination towards women in general. Unfortunately after week from this official 1^st IWD (international women’s day) event the “TRIANGLE FIRE” broke out in a New York sweat shop killing about 140 innocent working women and girls. This tragic event caught a great deal of international and congress attention to the deplorable working conditions that these women had to endure. Apart from that most of the women that were killed were Jewish or Italian. After some events the IWD was changed to March 8^th and this day has been the global day for women ever since.

In 21^st century we can see women in every field of the society. They have stepped in to politics, board rooms and higher ranks in other fields. Despite these improvements inequality hasn’t still changed. Still men are paid much than women and they have outnumbered women all most in every field. And still there are some places in the world where women’s health and education is paid less attention. And the violence against women’s is still continues to be great. Thanks to former members of IWD we have the right to vote, but still people consider women as weaker living beings who should live under male domination. I strongly disagree with people who think in that way.

According to my point of view; I see a woman as a wonderful creation of god. They can do many more things that you haven’t even dreamed about. In Sri Lanka, people never gave women the equality they should be given. I have no idea why people consider a woman as a weaker human being. Sure they aren’t as strong as men physically, but they are very powerful mentally even than men. (I might be wrong, but I really think so) People have always underestimated women in many fields. In early days in SL women were not given the right to attend schools. Why can’t she even have the right for her education? In recent past women were not so famous in politics. All I’m saying is “she” is capable of many more things. Just don’t put her down.

There were women who changed the world in many ways. As an example the iron woman; Margaret Thatcher she was the Prime Minister of United Kingdom. She made a huge impact on the whole world. And Hillary Clinton the secretary of state is good example to what women can achieve. And I guess you all have heard about Anne Frank. Of course she is not a woman she is a girl. Still the diary she had written about her life in secret annex is world famous and we have to study it for English Literature too. She represents the great amount of suffering that a woman can endure. Let’s go to the past. What about the great queen Cleopatra, she ruled the country well. Well…. She did some bad things too. Like killing her lovers but still she was great.

When the IWD arrives I know some boys (some of my friends) who say “aaaaah! It’s such a stupid day!” If you think that this is a stupid day, hello…. What about you mother then? She is a woman too. Do you consider this day which is special for your mother as a stupid, utterly useless day? No, I hope not.

I just think about your mother the great woman who gave life to you. People consider women as unimportant things especially in Asian countries. Take India for example, it’s really hard for an Indian girl to do an occupation especially if it’s about modeling or acting. True there are many famous actresses but still if they wear something half naked they are blamed. Even some Indian people protest against them. Is this the way we want to live, without having the freedom to do what we like? Sure because of religious reasons and cultural reasons (like in our country) we do have some restrictions. But there are some parents who don’t even let their daughters to do the occupation they like. In SL parents always say; “no, you should be a doctor or an engineer. You shouldn’t do modeling. That’s a bad job.” It’s a relief to see that this system is changed a little. But still you can see these kinds of things happening

And also I have noticed that most of the time girls are being blamed in the society. The violence against women is increasing in the society nowadays. If a girl is raped most of the time the whole society blames the girl. Discriminate her in many ways. What about the man then? Some would blame him but he won’t be discriminated in the society. Or may be he would be send to the jail. But the life that was destroyed cannot be mended.

Some men don’t respect women much. I don’t know why? They may don’t know about the impact that women cause to their lives. Just think about your special one. Do you respect her? Sure you do. But do you respect the lady who’s cleaning the toilets? No, you don’t. But she is a woman too. People who respect women mostly do it for the posts they hold. Not because she is a woman. On this women’s day all I want to say is respect her needs. She is capable of many things. Don’t underestimate her.

Okay now you’ll definitely tell me that I’m biased, and that I’m blaming men for all these things. Actually in 21^st century, things have changed. Nowadays women do have equal rights as men. (Most of the time) But still there are some countries in the world that draws a woman’s image as a person who should cook, raise children and live inside the house. Still Muslim women cannot go inside their mosques. They can go, but there’s a limit there. And some Muslim girls cannot wear whatever they like to wear.

In SL we have a man centered society. Because of that male domination can be seen everywhere. Some times this male domination causes mental health problems like depression too. When women are married in SL they have to do whatever their husband says. I’m not saying that it’s a bad thing but women should be given equal responsibilities at home too.

When Valentines Day arrives people make a big deal out of it. But this year we celebrated the 100^th anniversary of the women’s day and people doesn’t seem to make a very big deal out of it. In European countries women most of the time have equal rights. But mostly in Asian countries we don’t have equal rights. This happens mostly because of our culture. Sure, we cannot blame anyone for that. So in here I’m not blaming anyone I just want you to think about what I said. I really don’t feel very strongly about this subject. (Some what strong) I wrote this just because Gary asked us to write something.

I know you all will think that this is such a stupid article. I just wanted to say my point of view on this subject. If I had accidentally typed something unfair I apologize. Sorry.

:)

BLACK MARKET

First of all i don't know anything about this black market. Zip Zero Zilch!

But i'll try to write something.

The black market is actually not a physical place, but it is rather an economic activity where people buy or sell things illegally. These things range from selling a ticket to a musical show to selling weapons locally or internationally. Black market is also called as “underground market”.

The name “black market” is a very strange name. Black market got this name due to the fact that these illegal activities are conducted in the dark and out of the sight of law enforcements.

When considering the pricing in black market two methods of pricing can be seen there.

1. Firstly these goods can be cheaper in price unlike in the places where these items are sold legally. The supplier doesn’t have to pay for taxes and thus the items are cheaper. (But most of the time black market goods are pretty expensive)
2. Also these items can cost more than the amount they cost in legal markets. Most of the times these kinds of goods are prohibited in legal markets or unable to buy easily and dangerous. (like prohibited drugs and banned weapons)

Many factors can make these transactions in black market illegal. They are:-

• The good sold or the service provided can be illegal.

Ex: - selling prohibited drugs and prostitution.

• The good must have been stolen. And the buyer will be in trouble after buying it.
• This also can be a legal good which is sold in this way to avoid taxes.

Ex: - cigarettes that are smuggled in to countries

Due to government’s faults these markets can exist in anywhere anytime. But most of the times they tend to develop in states in countries which have strict regulations.

I think that politicians also play a major role in black market. But there are some people who prefer legal goods because of the risk they have to under go when dealing with black market stuff. Also legal goods are easier to contact.

Some of the underground economic activities in developed countries are,

1. Providing illegal transportations such as illegal taxis.
2. Buying and selling illicit drugs.
3. Prostitution. (of women and children mostly)
4. Selling weapons and other military stuff.
5. Alcohol and tobacco.
6. Selling copyrighted media. (In Asian countries mostly) etc.
7. Money itself is traded in black market.
8. Fuel. (i was stunned to see that fuel includes in black market. but it seems so. I'll add an article where i found about this.)

"Between the Republic of Ireland and Northern Ireland there has often been a black market in petrol and diesel. The direction of smuggling can change depending on the variation of the taxes and the exchange rate between the Euro and Pound Sterling; indeed sometimes diesel will be being smuggled in one direction and petrol the other."

So like I told earlier black market can be seen everywhere. It’s somewhat unstoppable. No matter how hard the government tries to stop it, the black market will always exist. So that includes my article. Hope I had written enough. :D

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POLITICS

Actually when speaking about politics i really don't have any idea about this subject. i don't like politics too.
WHAT I DON'T LIKE......
When thinking about politics in Sri Lanka it's really frustrating to see the way most of the politicians act on stage when an election is at hand. They always try to insult politicians in other parties.I highly criticize this behaviour in them and as most of them are highly educated and they should be a proper example to everyone. And also they use their power in some bad ways to hurt their enemies. Most of the politicians in our country always think about their party and their pocket.They hardly think about their country.
PRESIDETIAL ELECTION....
When talking about latest political issues in our country the most important thing was the presidential election that was held on 26th January 2010.The two main candidates was president Mahinda Rajapaksha and general Sarath Fonseka.However president Mahinda Rajapaksha won the election though it was not a surprise at all to me although some people claimed that he had cheated on his votes. So this has become a huge problem in our country and as media is spreading some ugly rumours people really do not know the truth.
CURRENT PRESIDENT.....
I'm am highly pleased with our current president. I think he is 100% appropriate for the post.He did a great service to our country. But there are much more things i admire in him.
His great patriotism for our country is greatly appreciated by me. He is also someone who respects our traditions and culture. Now you may think that i'm so uncool to stick to some traditions! But i always respect my country,traditions and my culture no matter how much they seem to be uncool.
Atlast i think politicians should think more about the country and of coure they should stop thinking about their pockets too much.

PLASTIC SURGERY

When considering about plastic surgeries i think that there are two different aspects of it. We truly can't be biased when talking about it.When talking about this we can't forget the late pop king MICHEAL JACKSON.He was very renowned for plastic surgeries.




One is of course the good side.It makes one, a totally new person! I think plastic surgery is a revolution in medical technology.It can also make one person look younger and it surely increases one's self-confidence too!!It sure does make you feel much better about your- self. It is also very essential when you are recovering from severe accidents and from breast cancers.

On the other hand it is something totally artificial.It destroys what you really are.It makes you some sort of a plastic doll.We can't change the natural order of things in our life.Human symmetry is perfect.Besides these surgeries have side effects like cancers ! So all in all i think these surgeries are dangerous to some extent but it is fine if you are doing it for something that really matters like when recovering from a terrible accident.