LOVE!!!

Hi!

As we did the unit “relationships” I thought I should write something about it. I’m writing about “LOVE” according to the way I feel it. Sometimes you may not have the same attitude to love, like mine.

The word “LOVE” is such a strange word. Because nobody has ever succeeded in giving this word a real definition. When you love someone that person becomes everything for you. I think this is somewhat bad because when that person leaves you, you won’t have anything left. Every single human in this world like to love and to be loved. It’s a natural thing. I think every single love in this world is conditional except for mother’s love and Jesus Christ’s love. But there are some mothers in this world who love their children conditionally.

Helen Keller, once told something like this,

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.”

Love is one of the most beautiful things in this world and it should be felt with the heart. One of the main mistakes people do in love is, loving someone who doesn’t love them back. I think you should love someone who loves you back. Other wise you are going to suffer.

Finding a lover is not easy. I found this good piece of advice from net and thought I should share it with my friends.

“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, that’s her... “

Some parts in this advice are very lame actually. Like “.who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... “. (I really don't think a boy will ever do this except Edward Cullen.) But all other things seems okay to me. So here I add some things that people have told about love.

• When you are in love you can’t fall asleep because the reality is better than your dreams.
• Women wish to be loved not because they are pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because they are themselves.
• Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime.
• You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
• To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
• I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
• Some of the greater things in life are unseen that’s why you close your eyes when you kiss, cry, or dream...

• The hottest love has the coldest end.

• The ones that you love the most are usually the ones that hurt you the most.

• If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

• I get the best feeling in the world when you say hi or even smile at me because I know, even if it’s just for a second, that I've crossed your mind.
• Falling in love is awfully simple, but falling out of love is simply awful.
• LOVE: We think about it, Sing about it and Dream about it and loose sleep worrying about it. When we don't know we have it, we search for it. When we discover it, we don't know what to do with it. When we have it, we fear loosing it. It is the constant source of pleasure and pain. But we don't know which it will be from one moment to the next. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define and IMPOSSIBLE to live without.
• Love - a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker.

It’s not easy to understand love. Until you find your special one you’ll think it’s lame. Sure it makes you weaker sometimes. But still it’s love. You should love someone to understand love.